is it alright for males to have a lust to wear womens lingerie?

is it alright for males to have a lust to wear womens lingerie?
like is it alright for a male to want to wear lingerie?
and i am not gay
how is it healthy to wear their clothes

I am not sure lust is the correct word…I am a straight masculine man and I wear panties all the time, sexy ones, 24/7…it is a wonderful natural high and a huge rush…I am a businessman and I started in my early teens…I got this desire to get naked and put on a pair of sexy panties…I loved it and I still do…its fun to talk to other pantymen who have this strong desire to wear panties…and, of course many females love it too…us men wearing panties!!! I did my laundry the other day and there was NOT a pair of mens underwear but ALL panties.

YBE Love, Lust & Lingerie

Help finding high fashion party dress!!!?

So I need a dress for a party and it’s going to be like jungle themed but I’m not really an animal print type person. So I may ditch the theme, get a black dress with some animal print pumps, or wear an animal print dress if it’s appeals to me.
I’ve been looking at thousands of dresses online and can’t find one that i actually like.
I want it to be short, empire waist, preferrably strapless, and flair out. I’m going to most likely wear 4-6inch heels and black pantyhose.
This dress is closest to the idea of what i want.. just not the color or flower…. http://www.edressme.com/3053.html
another example:

If you try the Betsey Johnson website like, now, you might find something but they are expensive. Her dresses are truly amazing! Everyone at the party will be so jealous if you get a Betsey Johnson dress!
Here is the link for one of my favourite ones:

http://www.betseyjohnson.com/store/productdetails2.aspx?categoryid=1101&productid=6246&np=1101

However, you could try Koodos, they do discounts on BJ dresses. Here’s the link for the website:

http://www.koodos.com/brands/betsey_johnson/designer-fashion?utm_source=google&utm_medium=CPC&utm_term=betsey%20johnson&utm_campaign=esv_betsey_johnson&gclid=CNb0u7Sfh5gCFcsa3godrFOJCQ

Sorry for the long links.
Hope this helps and have fun at the party.

Lily Leopard Dress and Pantyhose-TGirl